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On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Neuroscientist Emily McDonald: #1 Science-Based Hack to Rewire Your Brain to ACTUALLY Manifest the Life You Want

with Emily McDonald

Published November 3, 2025
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About This Episode

Neuroscientist Emily McDonald explains how understanding and rewiring the brain can help people break out of feeling stuck, overcome procrastination, and consciously create a life that aligns with their values. She connects neuroscience concepts like the default mode network, dopamine, vagus nerve tone, and neuroplasticity to practical tools for identity shifting, managing fear, structuring rewards, and manifestation. The conversation also explores self-worth, jealousy, money beliefs, relationships, and Emily's own journey from heavy labeling and health issues to designing a life and career that feel authentic and joyful.

Topics Covered

Neuroplasticity Manifestation Habits Dopamine Personal Development Mental health Focus Relationships Mindfulness Self-talk

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Quick Takeaways

  • Procrastination often stems from an identity mismatch, unexamined fear (including fear of success), or constant cheap dopamine, rather than laziness.
  • Shifting your identity to match your goal, and acting as if you already are that person, helps the brain update its default mode and support new behaviors.
  • Labeling specific fears and emotions activates the prefrontal cortex, calming the amygdala and giving you back cognitive control.
  • Cheap dopamine from late-night scrolling, snacking, or binge-watching can desensitize dopamine receptors and reduce motivation the next morning.
  • Manifestation, in Emily's view, is about rewiring your brain and nervous system to emotionally match the reality you want, then taking aligned action.
  • Feeling desperate and over-attached to an outcome raises stress and narrows perception, making it harder to see alternate paths and solutions.
  • Jealousy is fear in disguise and teaches your brain that something is not for you; deliberately reframing it as 'that's for me' shifts your sense of possibility.
  • Self-love, worthiness, and how you speak to yourself strongly influence what you will tolerate in relationships and how closely your life matches your desires.
  • Toning the vagus nerve improves nervous system regulation and is linked in research to stronger, more accurate intuition.
  • Emily continually applies these tools to herself, including releasing the need to be understood by everyone and intentionally adding more play and joy into her life.

Podcast Notes

Introduction and episode framing

Host introduces guest and themes

Jay shares that On Purpose is about listening, learning, growing, and becoming happier, healthier, and more healed[2:18]
He introduces neuroscientist Emily McDonald as founder of MindCraft, which provides neuroscience-backed tools to rewire your brain and master your reality[2:26]
Jay says Emily will explain how understanding the brain helps break limiting patterns, manage emotions, and consciously create the life you want[2:30]
Jay welcomes Emily and mentions he follows her on social media and has friends who swear by her content, also briefly congratulates her on her engagement[2:57]

How brain knowledge can change every area of life

Emily's promise for applying her ideas

Emily says applying the principles she teaches can change every aspect of life where you choose to apply them[3:27]
• She references a MindCraft student who reported that every single aspect of her life had changed since joining
Emily emphasizes that results depend on what you choose and intend to change[3:39]

Car analogy for understanding the brain

Emily compares the brain to a car: if it breaks down and you don't know how it works, you'll be stuck[4:38]
• She recounts her car breaking down and calling her brother, a mechanical engineer, who told her to pour water in a particular spot so she could get home safely
She says if you feel stressed, overwhelmed, or unfocused and don't know how your brain works, you may stay stuck, but knowledge lets you intervene[4:38]

Why people feel stuck and the neuroscience of procrastination

The brain as a prediction and safety machine

Emily calls the brain a prediction machine that filters inputs and constantly predicts what will happen next[5:45]
• She links feelings like anxiety to the brain predicting negative upcoming events
She normalizes feeling stuck as a natural outcome of the brain wanting to keep you in what feels safe and familiar[5:38]

Three reasons people procrastinate

Reason 1: Identity mismatch with the goal[6:36]
• If your sense of self does not match someone who does the goal behavior (e.g., starting a podcast or writing a book), your brain's default systems will not support the actions
Emily explains the default mode network (DMN) as regulating our default behavior and sense of self, constructing the story of our lives[7:01]
• If your identity conflicts with the new behavior, the DMN maintains old patterns instead of helping you act toward your goal
She advises 'identity shifting'-choosing to identify as the version of you who has already done the thing[7:51]
• When she procrastinated on her book, she realized she needed to decide she was an author now, not after publication

Acting like you already are the thing you want to become

Emily uses the analogy of falling asleep: you lie down, close your eyes, slow your breath, and 'pretend' to be asleep until the brain makes it real[8:41]
She says life works similarly: you become a drummer by acting like a drummer (practicing), not by waiting for a title[8:52]
She emphasizes that people underestimate the power they have to choose their own labels and identities[9:11]
• Growing up she had many labels put on her that she accepted as defining her, which she says affected her health and life
When you consciously adopt a new identity, your brain stops using only your past to predict your future and starts using your present choices[8:45]

Reason 2: Fear and fear of success

Emily says many people are subconsciously afraid of success and what it will bring, which keeps them stuck[10:39]
She shares that she procrastinated launching her own podcast because she feared being seen more vulnerably in long-form content and facing more hate and criticism[11:15]
She urges people not only to get specific about their goals but also to get very specific about their fears[11:37]
• Unidentified fears can control you; when you label them, you regain power and can update the story
Labeling fears and emotions activates the prefrontal cortex, which has a seesaw relationship with the amygdala[11:48]
• As prefrontal activity goes up, amygdala activity goes down, helping calm fear and bring back executive control

Emily's 'take it all the way to the end' exercise

She recommends mentally walking a goal all the way to its imagined outcome to surface hidden fears[13:39]
• For her podcast, she imagined having a top show, then realized that would mean more visibility, hate, and judgment, which her brain was trying to protect her from
Once fears are explicit, you can rewrite the story-for example, more visibility can also mean more love and support[14:06]
She suggests even visualizing fears, if safe, to see what truly scares you so you can change the narrative[14:55]

Reason 3: Cheap dopamine and its impact

Emily defines cheap dopamine as easy, frequent hits from social media, fast food, binge-watching, and similar activities[16:19]
She says dopamine 'doesn't care about your dreams'; it cares about what you repeat and automate[16:32]
If you continually give yourself cheap rewards, your brain is 'well fed' on dopamine and has less drive to pursue big, effortful tasks[17:40]
She compares it to snacking all day: you never get hungry enough for a full meal; similarly, you won't feel motivated for big goals[18:01]

Nighttime dopamine and morning motivation

Emily noticed waking up with low energy and less motivation and investigated why[18:40]
She explains dopamine resets and restores during sleep; late-night scrolling, binge-watching, or snacking disrupts sleep and desensitizes dopamine receptors[19:16]
• As a result, you wake up less sensitive to dopamine and less motivated to tackle significant tasks

Using neuroscience to boost motivation and productivity

Withholding rewards to train behavior

Emily uses a strategy of withholding rewards she wants (like a shirt, candle, or other purchase) until after completing a task she is resisting[19:46]
She relates this to her PhD research on drug addiction as maladaptive habit formation and dopamine pathways[19:37]
She says constantly giving yourself any reward you want undermines your ability to use reward strategically to drive big tasks[21:14]
She suggests tailoring rewards to what genuinely feels good to you, and sometimes using experiences or treats you usually reserve for special occasions as incentives[28:42]

Clarifying your why and rethinking discipline

Emily says for long-term projects like writing a book, being clear on why you want it is crucial because motivation will not always be present[20:49]
She reframes discipline as looking out for 'future you' rather than harsh self-control[21:04]
She challenges the idea of negotiating with yourself in the moment; instead she builds systems where rewards only come after key actions[21:22]
At one point she was struggling to film content and a friend reminded her to use her own tool of withholding reward to get herself moving[22:29]

Dopamine, learning, and self-acknowledgment

Emily notes that in dog training, you must reward a dog for sitting; the treat boosts dopamine, which drives learning and habit formation[22:59]
She argues human behavior works the same way: repeated pairing of effortful action with reward wires in habits so they become automatic[23:13]
She advises taking a brief moment after completing tasks-even small ones-to say to yourself 'I'm proud of you' or 'good job'[23:33]
• She cites research that self-talk and self-affirmation boost dopamine and activate the brain's reward centers
Emily admits she previously dismissed affirmations as 'woo-woo' until she looked into the neuroscience and saw their impact on reward circuits[23:55]
She warns against only rewarding final, large outcomes; instead, celebrate steps like posting a video or creating content, which build momentum[24:32]

Having something to look forward to

Emily says she noticed in college she was more productive when she had Friday night plans, because there was a reason to get work done efficiently[29:26]
She explains dopamine is also released in anticipation of a positive event, not just when the reward arrives[29:34]
She describes feeling like a 'kid on Christmas' the morning she was supposed to close on a house, and how that anticipatory feeling fueled productivity[30:02]
• They initially thought the closing would be delayed, decided to detach, and then got the call that they could get the keys, which she frames as an example of things often arriving when you let go
She uses playful activities like riding a ripstick or mountain biking as small rewards after completing content filming[30:38]

Attachment, joy, and enjoying the journey

Desperation and attachment blocking outcomes

Emily says desperately wanting something and being highly attached to it raises stress and cortisol, which narrows perception and creates tunnel vision[32:41]
Tunnel vision can prevent you from seeing alternate pathways and routes to your goal, effectively blocking you from achieving it[33:16]
She notes that chronic stress and fight-or-flight states make it harder to rewire the brain[33:52]
• She uses a classroom analogy: a child being bullied in class will struggle to focus and learn compared to a child who feels safe

Incubation effect and letting go

Emily describes the 'incubation effect' where solutions appear after you walk away from a problem and do something else[34:43]
She explains the subconscious and other brain regions can process more information and make connections than the conscious mind focused on the problem[34:52]
Constantly obsessing over a desired outcome can block this incubation process; working toward goals while letting go of the exact how and when allows helpful insights[35:21]

Joy, values, and the pace of growth

Emily says growth sits outside the comfort zone, and she credits 'delusional' risks and leaps of faith for where she is now[35:25]
She emphasizes enjoying the journey, noting that life is about the journey and if it were about the destination it would be called death[35:45]
Emily identifies joy as one of her top values and rejects approaches that sacrifice joy for speed or achievement[36:25]
Jay shares that one of his deepest values is love, and he wants to 'move at the pace of love'-as fast as he can while still loving what he does and how he serves[37:35]

MindCraft community and purposes people seek

Why people join MindCraft

Emily says MindCraft includes people from their 20s to 60s, with varied reasons for joining[38:48]
A common theme is feeling stuck and wanting to understand the neuroscience of reality and how the brain constructs experience[39:04]
She mentions a member who joined seeking purpose and spiritual connection and ended up finding his purpose and launching a nonprofit[39:43]
She observes many members eventually quit nine-to-five jobs and start their own ventures after understanding themselves and how their brains work[40:04]

Neuroscience of manifestation and perception

Emily's definition of manifestation

Emily believes strongly in manifestation but rejects the idea that it is just thinking until something appears without action[41:01]
She frames manifestation as understanding how the brain builds reality and then rewiring it to become a match to what you want, combined with aligned action[41:13]

Kitten visual development study and constructed reality

Emily describes a 1970s study where kittens were raised in darkness except for exposure to only horizontal or only vertical black-and-white lines[42:03]
• Kittens exposed only to horizontal lines later bumped into vertical objects like table legs because their brains were not wired to see them
• Kittens exposed only to vertical lines could navigate around legs but did not jump onto horizontal surfaces like tabletops in the usual way
She concludes the brain develops to help us survive in the environment we grew up in, and that wiring determines what we can perceive[42:18]
She asks what opportunities we might be missing in our lives because our brains are not wired to perceive them, similar to the kittens[42:47]

Becoming a match and acting before you can see it

Emily says a job, relationship, or other desired thing could be right in front of you but invisible if your brain is not programmed to see it[43:13]
She cites a masterclass attendee who had searched for a job for two years and got his dream job two weeks after applying her material[43:28]
She says you must 'be it before you can see it' because the brain has to be a match for an experience to construct it in your reality[43:47]
Even a great relationship can be perceived as toxic if your brain isn't wired for healthy relationships[44:06]
She argues that rewiring your brain plus taking action makes you 'completely unstoppable' compared to only doing one or the other[44:34]

Expanding your reality through exposure and environment

Exposure to new possibilities

Jay tells a story of coaching someone whose idea of the richest person they knew escalated from $100k a year to $100k an hour as he introduced them to different people[45:29]
He observed how each exposure expanded the person's mental model of what was possible[45:58]
Jay reflects that it is hard to dream of roles or lives you have never seen people like you inhabit[46:47]

Moving and identity in new environments

Emily says she loves moving as a way to level up and notes the brain is an association machine that links places with past patterns[47:34]
In a new environment, the brain has few prior associations, making it easier to install a new identity or mindset[47:37]
When she moved to Miami knowing no one, she met people whose lives expanded her sense of what's possible in business and content creation[47:20]

Jealousy, comparison, worthiness, and money beliefs

Reframing jealousy and comparison

Emily says jealousy often comes from the belief that someone else has something you cannot have, which is a limiting story[49:16]
She argues jealousy effectively teaches your brain 'that's not for me,' which blocks you from pursuing or receiving it[49:46]
She suggests reframing to 'that's for me' when you see something you want in someone else's life[49:16]
• She recalls seeing a romantic beach picnic when she was single, filming it from afar and saying to herself 'that's for me'-and later experiencing that with her now-fiancé

Worthiness and self-love

Emily says believing something is possible is important, but believing you are worthy and deserving of it is also essential[50:36]
She defines self-love as knowing yourself deeply, including your light and dark parts, accepting them, and giving yourself grace[49:59]
She suggests making a list of reasons you deserve something, but also notes worthiness can be a simple decision to claim 'I am worthy of this'[52:06]
If you don't feel worthy, she recommends asking why and taking that question 'all the way to the end' to unpack the story[51:16]

Money, abundance, and spirituality

Emily shares that time spent at a temple with monks taught her that wanting material things like money or a job is not inherently bad[52:39]
She says abundance is the state of nature-the way a fruit tree produces abundantly-and that the divine is abundant as well[52:45]
She believes being abundant can be a spiritual act and that people don't need to feel guilt or shame for wanting more money or material comfort[52:57]
She reframes material goals as vehicles for expansion, where the real point is who you become while pursuing them[53:37]
She notes that the story 'wanting money is bad' is learned programming, not an objective truth, and encourages looking for counterexamples of wealthy people using money for good[55:04]

Emily's current inner work and protecting joy

Releasing the need to be understood and accepted

Emily says she has been working on releasing the need to be accepted and understood by everyone, especially as a public figure[1:14:32]
She finds it difficult when she pours herself into positive work and then receives criticism or negative messages[1:14:26]
She observes that negative comments have been affecting her more than she'd like, which prompted intentional work to reduce their impact[1:14:14]

Pouring back into herself and play

Emily is re-emphasizing morning brain dumps: 30 minutes of stream-of-consciousness journaling to prime creativity and practice non-judgment[1:14:50]
She highlights the 'messy middle' of her life-new house, moving, engagement, no furniture-as evidence of growth and leveling up rather than failure[1:15:48]
She is intentionally adding more play, like riding her ripstick and playing with her dog, finding that enjoying life reduces the sting of comparison and criticism[1:16:42]

Aura anecdote and 'you get what you give'

Emily recounts going to an aura reading in Sedona where her fiancé joked his aura would be gold and hers would be brown[1:17:27]
The reading showed his aura as gold and hers as brown, which she interpreted as a sign she needed to pour more into herself[1:17:33]
She uses this to illustrate that what you project onto others tends to reflect back; when you talk negatively about others, you activate negativity in your own brain[1:17:23]

Dream about neuroscience of reality and other people's opinions

Emily describes a dream that clarified for her why she shouldn't overvalue others' negative comments[1:19:18]
She explains that the brain constructs all of reality: you don't see with your eyes but with your brain, which integrates thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and past before forming an image[1:19:50]
She notes studies showing that people with body dysmorphia literally have different brain activity when looking in the mirror, suggesting their brains construct different images[1:20:32]
She cites research that no two people see color exactly the same because no two brains are identical[1:20:36]
Using the kitten analogy, she says people programmed differently effectively live in different worlds; advice that is true in their reality may not be true in yours[1:21:31]
Realizing that others' comments reflect their constructed reality-not an objective one-helps her worry less about what they say[1:21:02]

Love, relationships, and wiring your brain for partnership

You attract what your brain is wired for

Jay asks how someone longing for love should proceed when they hear conflicting dating advice[1:22:22]
Emily says you don't attract what you want; you attract what your brain is wired for, so you must become a match to the relationship you desire[1:22:01]

Emily's 'dating like a scientist' method

Emily collected data from dates in the form of a list of values and traits she did and did not like in potential partners[1:22:22]
Her list focused on characteristics and values rather than physical attributes[1:23:16]
She then compared that list to herself, asking where she matched those traits and where she did not[1:23:02]
For example, if she wanted a partner who is physically active and eats healthy, she examined whether she lived that lifestyle herself[1:23:28]

Letting go and meeting her fiancé

At one point she told friends she was giving up on dating to focus on her business and content[1:24:16]
She met her fiancé that same week on a work call while she was 'doing her' and focusing on her own life[1:24:31]
Weeks after they started dating she revisited her list and found he checked every box[1:24:46]
She advises people not to settle and to recognize the feeling of 'that's what it's supposed to feel like' when a match aligns[1:23:33]

Dating yourself and emotional matching

Emily says you must date yourself and have a positive relationship with yourself to sustain a healthy relationship with another person[1:23:45]
She recommends using her earlier three-step feelings process for relationships: identify the feelings you want (e.g., safe, supported, celebrated) and then ensure you give them to yourself[1:25:21]
If you celebrate yourself, you are less likely to tolerate a partner who doesn't celebrate you, because it will feel like a mismatch[1:25:05]
By embodying the feelings and behaviors you want from a partner, you become a better match and more capable of recognizing when something isn't for you[1:25:21]

Three-step neuroscience-based manifestation method

Step 1: Identify the feelings behind your desires

Emily insists you don't actually want the thing; you want the feeling you believe the thing will bring[52:27]
She gives examples: wanting a relationship for feelings of love, safety, and support; wanting money for feelings of freedom and security[52:39]
She tells listeners who don't know what they want in concrete terms to still write down the feelings they want to experience[53:00]

Step 2: List reasons you already have to feel that way

She advises making a list of reasons you already have to feel your target feelings in the present[53:15]
In a live workshop, she realized her goal of one million Instagram followers was really about feeling 'official' and 'accomplished'[53:37]
She then listed reasons she already was official and accomplished, such as running a business, coaching people, changing lives, and having a large audience already[53:58]
She mentions MindCraft members who printed their resumes and put them on the mirror as visual reminders of what they've achieved[54:11]

Step 3: List what you can do to feel that way now

Emily has people list actions under their control that would increase those feelings today[54:06]
For feeling accomplished, her examples include completing a workout or writing pages of her book; for feeling official, revisiting messages from people she has helped[54:06]
After applying this process, she says that within about two months she reached one million followers, and she believes the practice shifted her energy and how she created[53:33]
By consistently cultivating the feelings now, you both rewire your brain and become less attached to the external outcome while still working toward it[54:34]

Final five: advice, morning practices, vagus nerve, and Emily's story

Best and worst advice

Best advice Emily has received: don't do what you think you 'should' do or what you think will work; instead, follow what most lights you up because that's what you'll make work[1:28:09]
Worst advice in her view: rigid prescriptions like 'you have to follow this diet' or 'you must post content this way' that tell you to override your own intuition[1:29:02]

Three Ms morning routine

Emily recommends that the morning after listening, people try the 'three Ms': movement, mindfulness, and mindset[1:29:32]
Movement can be brief, like three sun salutations, and helps move waste products that the brain dumps into the neck via the glymphatic system during sleep[1:29:53]
Mindfulness (e.g., meditation or breathwork) 'rakes the soil' by calming and preparing the mind[1:30:20]
Mindset (e.g., an intention or affirmation) plants the seeds for how you want to show up that day[1:30:25]
She says even 15 minutes of these practices can make you like a deeply rooted tree that is not easily swayed by life's winds[1:32:13]

Vagus nerve, intuition, and simple toning tools

Emily says one of the most shocking neuroscience findings to her is how vagus nerve tone is linked to intuition and manifestation[1:31:03]
She explains the vagus nerve connects brain and body, and when it is 'toned' (like a strong muscle) people have stronger, more accurate intuition and better nervous system regulation[1:31:32]
She notes that low vagal tone is associated with lower heart rate variability and more dysregulated fight-or-flight states[1:32:32]
She lists humming or chanting (like OM), grounding, exercise, gratitude practices, and certain vibration devices as ways to tone the vagus nerve[1:32:17]

Law Emily would create and her path into neuroscience

If she could create one law, Emily would require people to learn how powerful their minds are[1:33:38]
She grew up with many diagnoses and labels and thought she was stuck that way, not realizing neuroplasticity and epigenetics would allow her to change her mind and health[1:34:10]
She did not originally plan to study neuroscience; she hated biology, asked a friend what to switch to, and chose neuroscience because it sounded cool[1:34:48]
After scoring 100 on her first neuroscience exam, her professor emailed 'you could have done better,' which led her to join a research lab and fall in love with studying the brain[1:35:09]
She later focused her PhD on neurobiology of drug addiction and new targets to treat relapse, fulfilling her goal of helping with addiction, now also through MindCraft members becoming sober[1:35:43]

Labels, mental health, and healing

Emily describes serious physical and mental health issues in youth, including hospitalization with E. coli, PCOS, frequent ER visits, and multiple mental health diagnoses[1:36:31]
She mentions being labeled with depression, ADHD, and at one point bipolar disorder, and feeling like something was wrong with her and she would need medication forever[1:37:01]
She notes ADHD for her included emotional impulsivity, not just distractibility[1:37:31]
In a recent call with her grandmother, she realized she hadn't thought about her health issues in a long time, recognizing she had healed 'from the inside out'[1:37:01]
She credits tools like meditation with giving her 'superpowers' for focus, impulse control, and intuition, and wishes someone had told her earlier she could train her brain[1:37:31]

Lessons Learned

Actionable insights and wisdom you can apply to your business, career, and personal life.

1

Aligning your identity with your goals is a prerequisite for lasting behavior change; when you consciously choose to identify as the type of person who already does the thing, your brain's default patterns begin working for you instead of against you.

Reflection Questions:

  • • What big goal in your life currently feels out of sync with how you see yourself day to day?
  • • How would your daily choices change if you genuinely adopted the identity of someone who has already accomplished that goal?
  • • What is one small behavior you can start practicing this week that reflects the identity you want to grow into?
2

Unexamined fears-especially fear of success-quietly drive procrastination and self-sabotage; by taking your goal 'all the way to the end' and labeling what scares you, you calm your emotional brain and regain strategic choice.

Reflection Questions:

  • • When you imagine fully achieving a key goal, what specific downsides or threats does your mind start highlighting?
  • • How might your behavior change if you treated those fears as your brain's attempt to keep you safe rather than evidence that you're not capable?
  • • What is one fear you can write down and reframe this week so it no longer unconsciously dictates your decisions?
3

Cheap dopamine from constant scrolling, snacking, or bingeing undermines motivation for deep work; structuring meaningful rewards after important actions trains your brain to crave progress instead of distraction.

Reflection Questions:

  • • Where in your day are you currently 'snacking' on easy dopamine instead of channeling it toward something that matters to you?
  • • How could you redesign one routine task so that a reward you care about only happens after you complete it?
  • • What is one small but meaningful reward you will deliberately delay until you've finished a high-impact action this week?
4

Manifestation is less about wishing and more about becoming an emotional and neurological match to what you want by generating the feelings you seek now and then taking aligned action from that state.

Reflection Questions:

  • • If you achieved your next big goal, what three core feelings would you expect to experience more often?
  • • In what simple ways could you start giving yourself those feelings today, before any external change happens?
  • • What concrete action could you take this week from the energy of already feeling how you want to feel, rather than from scarcity or desperation?
5

Jealousy and harsh comparison signal where you don't yet believe something is possible or available for you; reframing others' wins as evidence of 'that's for me too' turns envy into a roadmap instead of a cage.

Reflection Questions:

  • • Who are you currently jealous of, and what exactly about their life or work triggers that reaction in you?
  • • How might your thoughts and actions shift if you consciously told yourself, each time you feel envy, 'this is showing me what is possible for me'?
  • • What is one practical step you can take to move a tiny bit closer to something you usually only allow yourself to envy in others?
6

Nervous system regulation and self-love are not luxuries-they determine what you perceive, what you tolerate, and how accurately you can access your intuition and make good decisions.

Reflection Questions:

  • • How do you currently know when your nervous system is dysregulated (e.g., tight chest, racing thoughts, irritability), and what do you usually do in those moments?
  • • How could you build one small daily ritual-like humming, grounding, or gentle movement-to signal safety to your body and strengthen your intuition over time?
  • • Where in your life are you accepting treatment or circumstances that you would never accept if you were deeply acting from self-respect and self-love?

Episode Summary - Notes by Dakota

Neuroscientist Emily McDonald: #1 Science-Based Hack to Rewire Your Brain to ACTUALLY Manifest the Life You Want
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