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My First Million

Masterclass: How to go from founder to CEO (without imploding)

Published October 28, 2025
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About This Episode

Sam and Sean discuss how a startup's growth is constrained by the founder's psychology and development as a leader, especially after the brute-force phase ends around a few million in revenue. They contrast abdicating versus properly delegating, share concrete management frameworks (like RACI and feedback methods), and talk about building culture through real, lived values rather than slogans. In the second half, they examine how repeat founders exploit their edge talents by running the same proven playbook in similar industries, highlighting multiple examples of entrepreneurs who "speedrun" the same business model to build multiple large companies.

Topics Covered

Entrepreneurship Business growth and scaling Leadership and management Workplace dynamics Personal development Hiring philosophy Content creation Systems thinking Company values Direct-to-consumer brands

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Quick Takeaways

  • A company's growth is tightly limited by the founder's psychology and leadership maturity, especially once brute-force tactics stop working around a few million in revenue.
  • Abdicating work to hires without training or clear expectations almost always backfires; effective delegation requires explicit "what, how, when" and ongoing follow-up.
  • Frameworks like RACI clarify who is responsible, accountable, consulted, and informed on a project, preventing the "dropped ball" dynamic as headcount grows.
  • Giving feedback that is specific, immediate, and unambiguous-both positive and negative-prevents resentment and surprise firings while reinforcing desired behavior.
  • Defining company values after observing how the team actually behaves can create values that truly guide decisions, especially when reinforced with concrete stories and rewards.
  • Many exceptional founders achieve outsized success by reusing the same business model and industry playbook repeatedly instead of chasing novelty.
  • Marginal gains-small, consistent improvements across many areas-compound into major performance advantages over time.
  • Speed as a value often makes people uncomfortable in practice, but pushing timelines and asking how to get results much faster can be a powerful cultural differentiator.
  • Leaders must get comfortable with frequent, early difficult conversations; avoiding them lets small issues snowball into large cultural and performance problems.
  • Content plus community has been a repeatable growth playbook in multiple businesses, from events and newsletters to curated founder networks.

Podcast Notes

Introduction: Founder growth as the bottleneck to startup success

Framing the brutal truth about startups

Episode focuses on how a business's success is dependent on the CEO's growth[0:00]
• They plan to cover going from starting a company to $1-3M in revenue and then scaling into tens of millions and beyond
Discussing mindset shifts required after ~$3M in revenue[0:08]
• Sam will share examples of scaling from $3M up to $100M and the "brain shift" required of a CEO

Journal realization: company growth capped by leader growth

Sam's journaling insight about leadership and company limits[0:34]
• Sam writes that his company can only grow as fast as he grows as a leader
Sean's framing: founder psychology as bottleneck[1:02]
• Sean says he has a similar belief: the bottleneck of any business is the psychology of the founder
• He views the business as a mirror of the founder's strengths and weaknesses

Transition stage: from brute force to leadership

Defining when brute force stops working[1:41]
• Sam estimates the brute-force phase roughly ends somewhere after $3M in revenue or around $1M a year in profit, depending on the business
Shift from doing to leading[1:51]
• After that stage, the hard part becomes scaling as a leader because the job shifts from doing the work to leading people

Abdicating vs delegating and the mechanics of proper delegation

Abdication pattern many founders fall into

Typical abdication scenario[2:08]
• Sam describes hiring someone or a freelancer, showing them step-by-step what he does once, then mentally checking out and assuming it's now their problem
• He then becomes frustrated weeks later when metrics are not improving and asks why things haven't gotten better despite having "shown" them
Emotional relief and blame shifting in abdication[3:17]
• In abdication, the founder feels mentally relieved of duty and implicitly assigns blame for any failure to the delegate

Framework for proper delegation

What, how, when, and motivation structure[3:37]
• Sam outlines a delegation framework: clearly explain what is expected, how to do it (training), when it's due (deadlines), and ensure ongoing motivation
• Proper delegation involves scheduled follow-ups and can take months of training for some roles
Sales training as a concrete example[3:45]
• For salespeople, he suggests watching their calls and sitting with them for two hours every week to give specific scripting and behavioral feedback
• Over three to four months, a properly trained salesperson may become better than the founder and even improve the process further
Core contrast: abdication vs delegation[3:31]
• Opposite of abdication is thorough delegation that includes training, clarity of expectations, and regular communication

RACI model and clarifying ownership as teams grow

The "dropped ball" problem in growing companies

Analogy of throwing a ball with many people around[5:22]
• With one person, it's obvious who must catch the ball; with multiple people, confusion arises about who should act
• As team size grows (e.g., seven people), sharp-elbowed people may grab work, others stand idle, and some feel resentful or excluded

Explaining the RACI framework

R = Responsible[5:48]
• The responsible person drives the work forward and implements the plan (e.g., head of sales executing on improving close rate)
A = Accountable[6:21]
• The accountable person is usually the boss whose name is ultimately on the result (e.g., chief revenue officer for revenue activities)
C = Consulted[6:27]
• Consulted parties must be brought in when a project affects them, such as delivery leads impacted by a big promotion or legal when there's a legal component
I = Informed[7:06]
• Informed stakeholders get FYI updates but their input or action is not required for the project
Using RACI at project start[6:45]
• Sean says you should define RACI along with project goals and deadlines to avoid confusion and dropped responsibilities

Transition from brute force to systems and best practices

Message for aspiring and early-stage founders

Brute force works up to a point[7:50]
• Sam notes that for the first phase up to roughly $3M in revenue, many founders can ignore formal systems and brute-force their way forward
The transition will be harder and sooner than expected[7:56]
• He warns the leadership transition comes faster and is harder than most expect, and embracing best practices is what separates winners from losers

Best practices vs "screw the rules" mentality

Founders' instinct to ignore process[8:20]
• Sam says many founders start companies with a "screw the rules" attitude, making it feel unnatural to adopt structured processes later
Commitment to constantly improving management systems[8:43]
• Sean argues the key is not blindly following every framework but committing to hunting down and iterating on systems that work for your company

Founder as root cause: people problems and accountability

Founders as "whiners" and people problems

Common CEO complaints[9:25]
• Sean says if you get founders to be honest, they often complain about people who aren't doing what they should or other companies doing better
• He notes people problems both drain energy and feel magical when you have star performers

Tracing problems back to the founder

Who chooses and manages the people?[10:02]
• Sean points out that the founder or CEO is the one who hires and fires and sets the culture of accountability
• Therefore, complaints about underperforming or unaccountable employees ultimately roll up to the founder
Even external shocks reveal founder responsibility[10:45]
• He gives an example of tariffs: if tariffs hurt the business, it reflects that the founder didn't build a robust, resilient supply chain
Upside of being root cause[11:01]
• Being the root cause of problems also means the founder is the root cause of solutions and has the power to fix them

Becoming the type of person for whom success is inevitable

Identity-level approach to results[11:16]
• Sean's realization: to get the results you want, you have to be the kind of person for whom those results are inevitable
• He gives examples: are you hiring great people, training them, holding them accountable, celebrating wins, and giving ownership and equity?

Discipline, practice, and CEO skill-building

Piano teacher analogy for mastery

Sam's question to his piano teacher[12:06]
• Sam asked if there was a better way to structure their lessons or a different approach to improve faster
Teacher's simple prescription[12:06]
• She said to pick songs he likes and play them repeatedly until he can play them well, because each song teaches something
• She emphasized that there is no "third door"; improvement comes from genuine interest and consistent practice

Fitness and CEO skills comparison

No secret shortcuts in fitness or leadership[12:58]
• Sam compares it to fitness: you either show up to the gym and eat clean or you don't; there's no secret strategy
• He argues being a great leader or CEO is similar: you must do the core best practices rather than chase hacks

Returning to self-improvement after initial survival phase

Self-help before and after starting up[13:25]
• Sam notes many founders binge self-help before starting, then stop reading and simply grind once the business starts
• Later, on what he calls the "second mountain", when the company is default alive but not default thrive, they return to learning
Need to learn "soft" leadership skills[14:13]
• He describes himself as slightly autistic and slightly meathead, inclined to brute force rather than nuanced conversation
• He realized he had to read a whole book on how to have difficult conversations to correct people effectively

Difficult conversations, feedback, and marginal gains

Core premise of "The Motive" about leadership

Leadership as frequent difficult conversations[15:01]
• Sam summarizes "The Motive": CEOs must recognize that a large percentage of their time will be spent having difficult conversations
Correct small issues quickly and privately[15:14]
• He advocates correcting small things early (like someone on their phone in a meeting) to set expectations for big things
• Corrections should be done privately and framed with respect, e.g., acknowledging intentions and explaining how behavior comes across

Lessons from "The One Minute Manager"

Hybrid planning process (one-minute plan)[17:10]
• Sean contrasts pure top-down plans (manager dictates everything) with pure bottoms-up plans (employee drafts alone)
• He describes the "one-minute plan" where the employee writes what they'll focus on, the manager gives feedback, and they iterate until both agree
• This gives the employee ownership and thinking responsibility while ensuring manager buy-in

PICS and NICS feedback framework

Positive/Negative, Immediate, Certain[18:52]
• PICS = positive, immediate, certain feedback; NICS = negative, immediate, certain feedback
• Sean criticizes the feedback sandwich and delayed feedback that builds resentment and leads to surprise firings
• He recommends giving feedback right after the event and being specific about the behavior, its effect, and what to do more or less of

Marginal gains and stacking small improvements

British cycling and 1% improvements[20:21]
• Sean recounts the British cycling coach story where many small changes (like adjusting bike seats) added up to big performance gains
Lead bullets vs silver bullets[21:14]
• He frames success as stacking many small, non-game-changing improvements ("lead bullets") instead of searching for a single silver bullet

Rethinking company values: from slogans to lived behaviors

Sam's change in approach to values

Early mistake: pre-written values he couldn't live up to[21:51]
• At his last company, Sam wrote values in advance and later didn't align with them, feeling trapped and "soft" for not following them
New approach at Hampton: observe first, name later[23:32]
• For Hampton, he intentionally avoided writing values at the start and instead observed what attributes he loved or disliked in the company
• After a couple of years, he is now naming values based on how the company actually operates

Jack Smith's baby-naming anecdote as inspiration

Waiting to know before naming[22:19]
• Sam's friend Jack did not name his baby for the first year, calling her "baby" until they got to know her before choosing a name
• Sam initially mocked this but later adopted the same idea for naming company values

Hampton's three values: fun, speed, pride

Fun[23:51]
• Sam wants fun in copy and projects, sometimes doing things just because they're exciting or fun rather than purely data-driven
Speed[24:20]
• He realized he values moving fast more than he previously thought and wants speed as an explicit value
Pride and concrete examples[24:30]
• Pride means feeling good about actions in personal and work life, such as choosing in-person events over purely virtual formats even if data is unclear
• Other pride examples: giving above-market severance, paying vendors same-day despite long payment terms, and striving for a reputation of doing things the right way
• He used "show some pride" to push for better reminder text copy and to nudge team members to dress more presentably at events

Making values real: trade-offs, examples, and reinforcement

Trade-offs in values and discomfort with speed

Zuckerberg's "move fast and break things" example[26:55]
• Sean notes Zuck explicitly acknowledged the trade-off in the value by saying "move fast and break things," not just "move fast"
Sam's observation: many people are uneasy with speed[28:22]
• He says when he asks how to do something in two weeks instead of six, many people become uncomfortable
• He distinguishes people who get energized by that question from those who are nervous about it

Concrete example of speed at Hampton

Rapid follow-up on applications[30:30]
• Sam describes a goal where if someone applies and meets criteria, a team member calls within 60 minutes, with a push to get that down to 15 minutes
• The early call is mostly to say "we see you" and give a personal point of contact, reflecting the value of speed

Tracking lived values through stories

Sean's suggestion: value-specific anecdote lists[31:35]
• He recommends creating an internal list for each value with concrete anecdotes of when the company lived that value
• Tracking who contributes to these anecdotes reveals who embodies the values most strongly
Skepticism about value implementation rates[32:33]
• Sean estimates that out of 100 companies that write values, maybe 10% or even closer to 1% actually behave differently from peers because of those values

Examples of strong value-driven cultures

Elon Musk's hardcore and speed values[33:32]
• Sean cites Elon's "sleep on the factory floor" ethos and pride in overworking as concrete cultural values at his companies
• He tells a story from the Walter Isaacson book: when a rocket had a crack in its skirt, Elon decided to cut the skirt off to maintain the launch schedule after calculating thrust would still be sufficient
• NASA engineers were stunned, saying they would never run a launch that way, highlighting how SpaceX operates differently
Another SpaceX speed example: transporting a rocket by road[35:09]
• A rocket piece was driven slowly on trucks with a person lifting power lines with a stick so the convoy could pass, instead of waiting months for ship transport

Weekly rituals to reinforce values

Celebrating examples and even mistakes[36:26]
• Sam says they already share examples of who moved fast, including discussing "blunders of the week" to learn from attempts
WWE belt and story-worthy prize[38:10]
• Sean used a replica WWE championship belt, awarded weekly to someone who lived the values in an above-and-beyond way
• The belt holder got small perks and a cash prize (e.g., $1,000) that had to be spent on something story-worthy to share with the team
• He says doing this consistently (e.g., 52 weeks straight) makes the values deeply understood, similar to how a second-grade class learns what gets rewarded

Reminder vs teaching in management

Alex Hormozi's reminder insight[38:29]
• Sean quotes Alex Hormozi: most team members don't need to be taught; they need to be reminded, and most failures are from lack of reminding, not lack of teaching
• He says this applies to himself as well; he often needs reminders to turn knowledge into lasting wisdom

Edge talents and founders reusing their winning playbooks

Sam's curiosity about founders going "all in" on edge talents

Variety-seeking vs repeat playbook[40:46]
• Sam says he naturally seeks variety and suspects many entrepreneurs share this, though some are better at resisting it

Example: RXBar founder launching another protein bar

Peter's second act with a similar product[41:07]
• They recall having Peter, the RXBar founder, on the podcast; after selling RXBar for around $500-600M, he launched another protein bar brand
• His new bar company has grown to a multi-hundred-million-dollar business faster than RXBar did, essentially speedrunning the category

Carbone vs Rao's: premium pasta sauce playbook repeated

Background on Rao's and its sauce business

From small Manhattan restaurant to billion-dollar brand[43:19]
• Rao's started as a small Italian restaurant and created an elevated but approachable pasta sauce that scaled widely
• Rao's sauce business sold for about $415M in 2017 and later resales reached around $2B

Carbone sauce and the same CEO's playbook

Eric's move from Rao's to Carbone[44:00]
• The CEO who scaled Rao's sauce, Eric, later applied a similar playbook to Carbone, a flashier restaurant brand
Recipe iteration and initial DTC struggles[44:54]
• During the pandemic, Carbone developed jarred sauce through many recipe trials and initially tried selling direct-to-consumer with modest results
Repositioning for retail with premium pricing[45:15]
• Eric realized they needed a clear value proposition and positioned the sauce as restaurant-quality, using premium ingredients and cooking methods
• They set prices at roughly double competing sauces ($7-11 per jar), giving retailers a much higher per-jar profit, which enticed them to carry Carbone
• Carbone's sauce business grew beyond $100M in sales and reached tens of thousands of stores, showcasing a repeated, refined playbook in the same category

Other examples of repeated niche playbooks

Nikita Beer's viral teen apps

Building multiple similar viral apps[47:00]
• They describe Nikita's teen apps where students get flattering prompts like "who's most likely to..." and receive irresistible notifications, driving virality
• He repeated this viral app model multiple times and parlayed that into running product at X and working with Elon Musk

D2C founder with multiple competing brands

Four $100M+ brands from one e-commerce playbook[47:46]
• They mention a friend who has built four different $100M D2C brands using the same e-commerce strategy, with two brands directly competing in the same Amazon category
• One brand did about $8M in a month while the other did roughly $7.5M, and for him the process now feels almost like autopilot

Sam's own repeated playbook: content and community

Consistency across 15+ years

From blogging and book clubs to conferences[49:35]
• Sam started as a blogger around age 20, then ran a book club in San Francisco that led to key friendships
• He hosted events like Bootstrap Live, then HustleCon, which drew about 10,000 people in one year (2018)

Content as magnet, community as business

Sean's synthesis of Sam's model[50:25]
• Sean summarizes that Sam consistently uses content (blog, newsletter, podcast) to attract a community, then monetizes via community products like events or networks
Long-term goal of a $100M content/community business[51:28]
• Sam says his goal at The Hustle was $100M in revenue from a newsletter, which seemed laughable at the time but he believed $30M was very achievable
• He notes his competitor and friend Austin Reif ultimately did reach that scale, proving the model, while Sam sold too early

Founders repeatedly using the same blueprint across companies

Eric Ryan's multiple nine-figure consumer brands

Four large outcomes with the same team[52:14]
• Sean mentions Eric Ryan founded around four companies that each reached nine-figure valuations, using similar patterns and people repeatedly

Money20/20 founders' conference blueprint

Cloning a conference model across industries[53:40]
• Sam describes Jonathan Wiener, who built multiple industry conferences (Money20/20, ShopTalk, GroceryTalk, Health, HumanX) using nearly identical website templates and event structures
• He says each of the first four events sold for nine-figure sums, collectively in the $600-700M range
Sean's takeaway: money printer via repeatable home blueprint[54:45]
• Sean likens their model to a home builder reusing blueprints: they repeatedly build large, valuable conferences in different verticals

Psychological trade-offs of repeating vs seeking novelty

Scar tissue vs boredom

Knowing too much can hurt in two ways[55:01]
• Sean says long time in a space gives knowledge and contacts but also scar tissue that can make founders unwilling to re-enter that market
• When it works and money problems are solved, some founders then feel bored repeating the same game and crave something new
Sean's personal bias toward new challenges[55:02]
• He identifies as someone who has always been in the "need something new" category rather than repeating the same playbook

Sports betting example: repeating the same lead-gen playbook

Kendall's state-by-state sports betting sites

Dominating New Jersey sports betting leads[56:59]
• Sean recounts Kendall's story: when only New Jersey had legal sports betting, others left the US market, but Kendall built a site that dominated NJ traffic and sold it for around $40M
Repeating in Minnesota and beyond[56:38]
• Kendall repeated the same playbook in another state (Minnesota), selling that site to the same buyer for about $45M, after which the buyer added broad non-compete terms
• Sean recently learned Kendall is again selling leads in a similar model, essentially committing the same "crime" multiple times with refinements

Closing

Wrap-up sentiment

Hope that these ideas help founders run companies better[57:55]
• They end by expressing hope that the discussion helps listeners operate their companies more effectively

Lessons Learned

Actionable insights and wisdom you can apply to your business, career, and personal life.

1

Your company is a mirror of your psychology and decisions as a founder; most recurring people and operational problems ultimately trace back to how you hire, train, structure, and hold others accountable.

Reflection Questions:

  • • Where in my business am I blaming others for issues that I actually chose or tolerated through my own decisions?
  • • How might my current beliefs and habits as a leader be limiting what my company can become over the next two years?
  • • What is one concrete behavior I can change this week to better reflect the kind of founder whose success is "inevitable" in my chosen market?
2

Delegation only works when you specify what success looks like, teach people how to achieve it, set clear deadlines, and follow up consistently-instead of dumping tasks on them and mentally checking out.

Reflection Questions:

  • • Which responsibilities have I effectively abdicated rather than properly delegated, and what damage is that causing?
  • • How could I redesign one key role or project using the "what, how, when" structure so that ownership and expectations are unambiguous?
  • • What recurring meeting or feedback loop can I schedule this week to actively train and support someone I'm counting on?
3

Timely, specific feedback and marginal gains compound: if you give clear positive and negative feedback immediately and keep stacking small improvements, the culture and performance of your team can change dramatically.

Reflection Questions:

  • • In what situations do I tend to delay feedback, and how has that procrastination backfired on me or my team?
  • • How can I make my feedback more specific and behavior-focused so people clearly understand what to repeat or change?
  • • What is one small 1% improvement I can implement in my team's process this week, and how will I reinforce it so it sticks?
4

Values only matter if they drive different decisions and behaviors; defining them based on how you actually operate, then reinforcing them with stories, rituals, and rewards, makes them real instead of corporate wallpaper.

Reflection Questions:

  • • If an outsider watched my company for a month, what values would they infer from what we actually do, not what we say?
  • • How could I create a simple ritual (like a weekly shout-out or award) that spotlights concrete examples of our stated values?
  • • What is one decision I'm facing now where explicitly choosing based on our values would lead me to act differently?
5

Reusing a proven playbook in a familiar niche-where you already understand the customers, channels, and pitfalls-can be a far more powerful edge than constantly chasing new ideas for the sake of novelty.

Reflection Questions:

  • • What domain or business model have I already built deep expertise and contacts in, but haven't fully exploited a second or third time?
  • • How might my last successful project look if I "speedran" it today with everything I now know about that market?
  • • What fears or boredom signals are stopping me from reusing my strongest playbook, and how could I design the next version so it still feels engaging?
6

The unglamorous parts of leadership-frequent difficult conversations, enforcing standards early, and pushing for uncomfortable speed-are often exactly what differentiates a good company from a great one.

Reflection Questions:

  • • Which difficult conversation have I been avoiding that, if handled this week, would prevent a small problem from becoming a major one?
  • • How could I set clearer standards for behavior or performance in a way that feels firm but respectful to my team?
  • • On an important project I'm overseeing, what shorter timeline could I challenge the team with, and how will I support them in hitting it without burning out?

Episode Summary - Notes by Jamie

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